Planning our wedding was such a whirlwind, and I’m here to share a few tips that helped me navigate it all—from our engagement on May 7, 2023, to our wedding on November 16, 2024. If you’re planning your own special day, I hope these tips help you have just as much fun as I did!
Know Your Must-Haves Early
I can’t stress this enough: start with the foundation. What are the non-negotiables for you and your partner? For example, my husband and I knew from day one that we wanted two things: an unlimited taco truck and karaoke. Once we had the essentials locked down, everything else fell into place.
The key here is to make room for your unique vision. If you want something out-of-the-box, let that be your compass. If you have those clear "must-haves" from the beginning, you’ll have a solid anchor to guide the rest of your decisions. Your wedding doesn’t have to look like anyone else’s.
Join Bridal Facebook Groups (But Know Which Ones)
There are two kinds of groups you need to join immediately. First, local “bride to bride” groups, where past brides sell leftover decorations, dresses, jewelry, and other wedding items. These can save you a ton of money while giving you the chance to snag some unique pieces that might be hard to find elsewhere.
Second, join the local bridal community forums. These groups are a goldmine for vendor recommendations and advice. Don’t waste hours Googling vendors, only to fall into the trap of discovering their pricing isn’t in your budget. Instead, post a request detailing what you need, when you need it, and your maximum budget. Trust me—vendors will come to you, and you’ll be in control of who you choose, based on real reviews and firsthand experiences.
Hire a Coordinator You Trust
A coordinator who understands your vision and style is absolutely worth the investment. They’ll keep you organized, save you time, and ensure that every detail is handled so you can focus on what matters—enjoying the experience.
And here’s a little pro tip: don’t just hire the first coordinator you find. Interview a few, get a feel for their personality and approach, and choose someone who not only gets your aesthetic but also makes you feel at ease. They’ll be by your side through the ups and downs, and you’ll want to feel completely comfortable with them.
Stay True To You
It’s easy to feel pressured by family, especially if they’re contributing financially or have strong preferences of their own. However, you and your partner should be the ones making the final decisions. And remember: at the end of the day, your family and friends will have a blast at your wedding, no matter what.
